Anger makes people to fail.

There is number of people who find themselves to be on the wrong side of the law as result of anger. When a human being is angry , it is difficult to determine between the wrong and the right. Anger make one argue and it take away the ability to think properly. I even teach my children to resist any temptation with regards to be overwhelmed by anger. I teach then to just walk away once they realise that they getting angry in any situation they find themselves in life.One of the victims of anger was Mark Tyson a very good boxer who find himself in jail so many times.To overcome all of these one must have a sense of huma which has to do with being able to live with other human being in peace and harmony.We are all created to be different and the most important thing is that we need to accept that what is percieve to wrong to me may  be perceived to be another in inividual.

History repeat itself

You know when you grew and try to remember your past , sometimes it is just as if you have past a stage of difficulty in life especially when you are at a comfort zone. This was exactly what happened to me in 2011 where the treatment that I got from my employer which is the City of Cape Town Council reminded me of the dark days of apartheid. I was accused of various misconducts and to my wonder is the fact that in my eighteen years of loyal service to the city , I have never done those thing which they alledged that I have done. Now at my fourty five years of age with an eighteen years of unbroken service I can act in such a stupid manner as if I am an eighten year old and that is somekind of belittling me and that amount to racist of the highest order.The worse part of it is the fact that I got a call from the employer a day before the disciplinary hearing instructing me to return all items belonging to the employer such as laptops, access cards, and office keys. What implies to me was the fact that the outcomes of the case have been predetermined by the employer although the hearing was postponed. What I have realised from this experience is the afct that it is true that history can realy repeat itself that is why some people believe that what they did during apartheid time was legitimate. They even confirm publicly that even if they can get the opportunity to goven this land , they would repeat what they did in the past without any remorse

Everyday is a good day

Every day is good day , it is just we the people expect that we must onlu luagh or smile , and that is not what life entails. Life entails ups and down and its important for us human being to value life like that. Everything that happen to us in our daily life is good for becuase each day has story to tell .Thafct that some thing happened to us does not means that the day was not good. It was good in the an incident happened to us which we may call it a learning curve

Our greatest strengths is our greatest weaknesses

I believe that my strengths is my background and I am a man who can stand the pressure irrespective of the circumstances I find myself in .This strengs is also realised by certain people wherever I go or doing things and that has been my belief that I am a heavy weight is far as the strenths is concern.Things changed when I reach the thrities and what I have realised was the fact that , my enemies/rivals have revealed a side which I never new anything about it of using what I believe is my strengths as my weaknesses.This at first I never realised the extent my weakness and when this use of what I believe was strengths to destroy happened, it was when I realised that your strengths are your greates weakness.Say for example if you let the world know what are your dislikes they will at all time treat you like that , using what is your dislikes and end up being persecuted by little things in life

NOT ALL WHO WANDER ARE LOST

When you leave you house or your office you always see those who are wandering whether it is in the mountains or in the corners of the street or anywhere for that matter, there shall always be people who are wandering. The fact that they are wandering does not mean they arelost , they are wandering for a number of reason, it can be for the purpose of finding a puropse in life , re-energise , strartegise or for number of reason.Some are wandering to conceptualise a business strategy which they intend to implement to take their business forward , some are employed to wander and that is how they make a living.What people are doing on the earth surfece, when trying to inteprete their action, one will find a number of reasons so we don't have to conclude that they are lost

we are what we do

We are what we do, this statement means that , the world around in which we and people around it perceive us the way we act.It is very important , that we conduct ourselves as people in a manner that does not ruin our reputation.Wherever you are an underdog in life ensure that conduct yourselves in disciplined manner.The values that we espouse to should be at all time what people see from , other than to advocacy for this tomorrow we are seen practising something different.Its like what most leaders are doing for example we are opposed to racism , but what they preaching is completely different to what they are practise in nutshe end up contradicting themselves  what is the impact of that in that leaders reputation.So it important that we don't fool ourselves and believe that vulnerable people can not analyse these thing and come to a conclusion. The saying  that first impression last long is also true , the first time people see you will be inscibed in their mind whether you we doing a good or bad thing , so watch your actions in everything you do, rather leave in their mind a good impression about yourself